We scatter momentarily before finding one other again. Like a magnetic force springs us back to a huddle; a touch, a kiss, a constant reminder of comfort and safety.
Sometimes I wonder if  all of this fluid flock behavior is providing them with a skewed view of the world around them. But then I realize they’re young. So very young. And for us, in this season, it works.

You know what I don’t want to have happen?  I don’t want the next ten years to pass, and then I come to the heart breaking reality that I’ve helped countless families preserve their love in photographs without documenting my own little flock. I don’t want that for you either.  Because us mother’s need pictures. We need to be reminded of the unmistakable connections and full blown true real shining love that lives there between us and our babies. We need beautiful pieces of evidence showing that magnetic force or whatever the days look like for you.  It’s not only a luxury, but some days it’s a down right necessity.

And so you know…I would just be the happiest to make that all happen for you by photographing your family. But also here’s this…so that you can document the everyday, all the time, whenever you want.

So here they are; all the tips and tricks I implement when using my self timer to photograph the three of us (or four when the husband can stop in from work). I also use these tips when my husband is up for taking some shots for us, because self timer and husband pictures in our family are pretty much the same…he’s a farmer, bless him ; ) .  I hope these work for you all!

1. Use a tripod. | You can find a great 60 inch tripod on Amazon.

2. Take the picture with your phone first. | This is bit more necessary if you’re using a film camera since each shot = $$. So when I’m using my 35mm or medium format film cameras, I take the image first with my iPhone to be sure that everything is in the frame that I’m hoping to capture.

3. You need someone, or something, to mark your focus before you jump into the shot. | I usually have my 4 year old mark my focus. So I’ll place her right where I know the center of “us” will be (usually me since I’m the largest target out of the three of us). But I’ve also used a pillow, stuffed animal, small Elsa figurine, you get the picture.

4. Don’t get your little one(s) involved until the very last minute. | What you really want to avoid is a melt-down. Can I get an amen? Really a melt-down from anyone, littles and adults alike. So I try to get everything set up and ready before I call in the crazies.

5. Have treats readily (and steadily) available. | Gummies are a go-to around here, but really whatever you have. I am never above bribery. “Let’s play here on the bed for a few minutes and you get a treat!” Then once you start playing, reading, snuggling, whatever it is you want to capture, they’ve kind of forgotten about the picture part…but just in case they don’t, you’ve got treats.

6. Start with a continual shoot on your dslr. | I normally use my film cameras, but if I was to use my dslr, I would definitely suggest using continual shoot. That way you’ve got a much higher chance of getting some great shots in a short amount of time! Disclaimer: I’ve never actually used continual shoot because I use film, but it sure sounds like a great idea!

7. Lastly, if the kids aren’t feeling it, just try again another time.| Sometimes they just aren’t into it. Sometimes they just want to do their own thing, and have their own space. Trust me…you’ll know if it’s not working reeeal quick, so don’t force it.

And don’t worry about your hair, or if you’re wearing make-up or if you’ve worn the same v-neck t-shirt for 2 days straight, or if your eyes are puffy. And don’t worry if you only get one shot you love.  I usually shoot for about 10 minutes, about 36 shots, and end up with roughly 5-8 I really love…to me, success, because I have these treasures to print and hang or stow away for years to come.

Now go take some pictures.

I’m always so refreshed after creating such organic goodness with my dear, incredibly talented, beautiful friend, Amy.  She’s pure gold that one.  Give me all the wild branches and soft lace gowns and glowing afternoon light and olive groves and I’m happy like a bluebird.

Florals/table design/olive favor: Brown Bunny Flowers | Dress: Madeiline’s Bridal Boutique | Invitation: Red Calligraphy | Model: Caitlyn Bourbon | all images taken on fuji 400h film | developed and scanned by Richard Photo Lab

I truly believe there are times we are meant to cross paths with particular people; for me, Jessica was one of those people. She discovered my work through instagram, and contacted me inquiring about a family session with her husband, their three year old daughter, and new baby girl. They lived three and a half hours north of me, but just minutes away from where I had already been planning to travel two weeks after her first email. The rest fell into place.

The bright midday sun flooded into their family room, creating the most lovely cocoon of soft diffused light. It was so beautiful to watch Jessica with her daughters. She spoke softly in Spanish to the baby, her bright blue eyes fixed on Jessica’s, smiling and cooing in response. Ryan fixed tea and cookies for the toddler, a welcomed reward for her sweet disposition throughout our time together.

It was such a privilege to preserve these intimate family moments. To witness the dynamic between new sisters, and that quiet but grand relationship between a mother and her new baby.

I am so in love with photographing families in their homes on film.  It’s a combination, that to me, just can’t be beat.  PLUS!  It’s perfect for those hot dry summer months, which will be here before we know it.  If you love photographs filled with love and light and real family interactions that you’ll be able to cherish for a lifetime, I’d love to hear from you!

all images shot on fuji film | featured on Fount Collective HERE.

Sometimes we miss it the first time.  But then we grab a coffee and take a seat and wait patiently until the next one; because we know another will come.  And soon enough we hear the rumble of the tracks and we run out to meet it.  We breath deep, smile big and take the leap landing right there where we were meant to ride all along.

Ashley has been one of my dearest closest (funniest) friends since the 10th grade, when things were all awkward and weird…. who am I kidding, we are still pretty weird.  She’s beautiful and kind and all the things that make you proud to know someone. She has this heart that offers grace to everyone, a heart that draws you in, and makes you warm and happy.

I was so honored to have had the opportunity to spend the afternoon in San Francisco with Ashley and Tom.  The love between them was palpable and real.  It glowed soft like that late afternoon light.

And here’s the reeeeaaalllly happy news… these two are tying the knot TODAY!

Congratulations Mr + Mrs Wilkinson!

all images shot on portra 400 film | developed and scanned by The Find Lab

I’ve been thinking so much about that idea of home lately.  How it’s so much more than brick and mortar. It’s the hearts of those you love the most tangled up with your own, your beacon, your perpetual cozy blanket. Your home is part of your story… and I can’t tell you enough how precious, your story is.

Lauren and her sweet boy, Holden shared their morning with me.  They snuggled, as slow mornings go,  they played, there was coffee (for her), and kisses (for him). I had come to photograph a home tour for Style Me Pretty Living, and snuck in a roll of film near the end, my favorite natural interactions, bed jumping, kitchen counter crawling, table sitting, and all.

images shot on portra 800 with a Contax 645